Last Week
a very busy week cos my grandmother passed away... that was monday night, my uncle called at around 7 plus and ask mi to tell mami that he is bring ah ma to the hospital. So i pass the msg .. i thought ah ma is going hospital for regular checkup only ... worse come worse , doctor will only ask her to stay over for a few days for additional check ... my mami also thought the same ... last week, sat just saw her and she looks fine...
Then my mami called mi at 9 plus , saying ah ma is in serious condition... she is going to hospital straight away ... after i finish what i am required to do ..i ask my sis to call if we can go down to hospital ... my mami said ah ma's brain is dead but her heart is still beating... :'(
we went down ... and stay there for a few hours ...mami say she is waiting for everybody to come see her then she will go ... i think its true ...cos ah ma bring up mi , my sis and two other cousin and take care of us ... i and my sis are there ..whereas the other 2 can't come cos they got sch tml and their mami dun allow... when ah mi told ah ma that they got sch and exam so they can't come ...ah ma got respond to it lor ... not using words but sound .. cos once brain is dead , the person can't speak and their eyes can't move aready... she left us at 8.25 am , tue
For the rest of the week, very busy ...
wake up in the morning around 9 am , study till 5 pm , then go ah ma there and stay till 1 plus
this is my routine for the 3 days (wed to fri)
Sat , morning 7 plus to 12 plus go help my father then after that then go my ah ma there...
then got the ceremony going on at night ... we have to bring ah ma to cross the bridge ... mami say from tue till today , ah ma still dun know she dead so we need to bring ah ma cross the bridge then she will wash her face in the basin then she will know...
damm angry with my big ku's wife ( sorri huanyu pin yi not good) she is ah ma's biggest son 's wife ... u know wat she do ! everybody is ask to wear white socks and no shoes ! and then she was not wearing the socks and she is wearing shoes lor ! and then because she is ah ma's biggest son 's wife , she is rank b4 ah ma's daughters lor ... the ranking was like all son in front , then follow by their wife then their children then all daughters then their husbands then children lor... there is a lot of work she need to do and she is not doing ..she passed all the work to my aunty ! how can ! on sunday, also , everybody has to wear white shirt and she is wearing black ...and she is in this family , she should help out in serving the ppl who came ! but all the time , she is just sitting there and asking others to serve her food! she is so bull shit ! stay over for the night...
Sun , is the last day... damm tired on sun ...reach home at 6 pm , then i went sleep until next moning 9 then wake up lor ...lucky tax test is still consider managable ..if not i sure die de ...morning then i study + last fri which is 2 days ago ...alot of things dun remember le lor..
Monday, all son and daughter went to collect ah ma's ashes and put it in the temple... funny thing happen. ah ku lost his shoes lor ..serve him right! lol ... o.O
funny is that , at the temple no need to take off shoes ma ...so how did he lost his shoes ?
mami say ah ma take it away de ! :)
* all sister don't like her lor !
Tue, went temple to see ah ma cos is the 7 days le .. my ah mi say she dream of ah mi ..this is her dream : ah mi was walking in a unfamiliar place, she walk and she walk , ah mi know she lost her way then suddenly she saw ah ma ... then she wake up le ...
then i ask , how ah ma looks like ? can she walk ?
Ah mi says : she looks like 2 years ago when she is still chubby and able to walk ...
then at night , i think in the bus , mami tell ah mi to go check her rice bucket whether there is a hand or something .. ah mi check and say got ... ah ma really go ah mi's hse on monday night ...
Wed , CRA sux! the paper can really killed us lor ! i thought maybe got a bit of chance of getting a Z .... but now can forget about it le ! if still got an A , consider very lucky le lor ! :(
Thur, AA also sux but CRA is more worst ...
Fri , last paper tml ... lol i still blogging lor and i still haven finish studying ! oops ! hopefully tml paper is not so hard! : )
